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From roommates tosoulmates

The Problem

The daily drip drains the magic.

Leaky Nagging: a comment here, a correction there, the apology that never lands. It turns intimacy into logistics and erodes the spark.

Symptoms

  • “We’ll talk later” becomes default.
  • Small issues snowball.
  • Affection feels scheduled.

Impact

  • Weekdays feel tense.
  • Repair keeps getting postponed.
  • You feel like roommates, not partners.

The Solution

A safe container for the hard stuff.

Instead of conflict leaking into the week, the check-in keeps hard topics in one place. Notes stay private until you share them, and the shared agenda keeps the conversation focused. You both leave lighter, with next steps for the week.

Chaos

The drip continues, the room cools, and nobody feels fully seen.

Container

  • Set aside 30-60 minutes for a weekly check-in.
  • Notes stay private until you share them.
  • You end by choosing up to two pacts for the week.

The Ritual

How it works, step by step.

A ceremony that makes hard conversations easier without watering them down.

01

Capture

Add quick notes during the week so your agenda builds itself.

02

Request

Send a check-in request and accept when you're both ready.

03

Check-in

Set aside 30-60 minutes to talk through your shared agenda (local audio or video call).

04

Pacts

Review the recap and choose up to two pacts for the week.

The Science

Your relationship scientist.

We turn each check-in into a recap and pacts: clear signals you can act on without the generic advice.

Recap, distilled

Get a concise recap after each check-in so the week feels clear.

Pacts for next week

Choose up to two pacts to try (shared or personal).

Talk balance

See how much each of you spoke in your latest mapped check-in.

Grounded in data so the conversation stays focused.

The Bridge

Built for the bridge between you.

Long-distance needs structure, timing, and emotional safety beyond scheduled calls.

  • Asynchronous notes keep time zones from blocking hard conversations.
  • A request/accept flow replaces the awkward “can we talk?” text.
  • In-app video check-ins with your shared agenda when you're apart.

Coming Soon

The check-in is almost here.

We are preparing the first release now. Join the waitlist to be first in line when the iOS or Android app opens.

Coming soon to iOS & Android

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